
Most Christians say that they trust God. And most of us say we have faith that He knows what’s best. But when tragedy strikes, or even just a hard battle, we start to lose our faith. When things don’t go they way we thought they would, or the way we think God would want them to go, our trust in Him starts to falter.
We might question Him and worry that things are not going to work out for the best. Maybe because we think we know what’s best?
It’s hard to wrap our minds around bad things that happen. When tragedy hits, we can’t understand how God would allow these things. But how can we know what is best? How can we see the bigger picture? There is now way that our minds can possibly grasp the mind of God and understand all of His plans.
I’m in the season of parenting young adults. This is the hardest season of parenting. Because they don’t have to listen to me anymore! If I could discipline them and make them mind, it would be easier. It is hard as a parent to watch them make their own mistakes. And then watch them walk through the consequences of their mistakes.
We know (being a little bit older) that sometimes it takes walking through some battles to learn and also to grow closer to God. I would not be as close with Him as I am if I haven’t had to fight some battles. There are some things that I would never have made it through had He not carried me.
So why would I want my children or anyone else to miss out on that? It’s the hard fought battles that bring wisdom. And believe it or not, for me the hard fought battles have brought about joy. Not in the midst of the battle usually, but when you’ve been brought through it, there is a joy and a peace that only He can give. Every battle brings more joy and more peace (if you let it).
Battles can make you better or bitter. That part is up to you. But let me tell you, when you lean into God and lean on Him, the battles get easier.
So my prayer now is simply ‘whatever it takes’. If it takes some really hard battles for my children and even for me, to be placed in the will of God, then so be it. ‘Your will, Lord, not mine’. We have to remember that He knows what He is doing. Nothing takes Him by surprise.
We can rejoice in knowing that we serve a God that is in control. We really don’t have any control. He does. And He knows what’s best. Just trust Him.
My favorite verse reminds me all the time to just sit back and trust Him. “Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!” Psalm 46:10 It says so much in those few little words.
And “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6
Our own understanding is far smaller than God’s. Just remember that He knows all and we can trust in Him fully!
Blessings,
~ Cheryl

